There are different types of swinger clubs that fit everyone’s interests.
We, Fullmoon Seductions, are a social club and throw a smaller, intimate parties at hotels and houses.
We recommend these clubs because we’ve visited them and they have provided us great times over the years. There are tons of other great places we just have not visited yet, but may still be a fun club for you. But do be careful, there are also many “clubs” that risk safety and discretion.
These clubs usually outnumber the legitimate clubs, so below we posted some suggestions to insure that you find fun, safe places to play in the city.
Amour Getaways – If you are a POC or interracial couple and want to find a host of great events, trips and parties across the world, Amour Getaways is your travel agency. We go on at least 2 or 3 trips with them a year and its some of the best fun we’ve had in the lifestyle.
https://members.amourgetaways.com/sessions/new#
Naughty in Nawlins – A lot of folk want to talk about our Hedo vacations (we’ve been 8 times) but few if any event we’ve gone to tops this annual party. We have great hotel takeovers in the area, but Naughty in Nawlins is the best you can attend in the country. Five days and exclusive swinger fun.
https://www.naughty-events.com/
Club M4 (and Other Canadian Clubs) – Toronto is only a 3.5 hour trip from the detroit area and worth every mile. In canada, swinger clubs are common place and legal. When we say legal, we mean that there’s no secret codes, swinger clubs operate like regular bars and businesses with firm regulations. The rules of swinging is etched into these clubs. Club M4 is our favorite.
https://clubm4.com/
Wild Walkers – Off premise bar – wonderful atmosphere, friendly staffed, events are swinger ran.
Angel Entertainment – DJ Dave has been a good friend of ours for years and throws one of the best hotel take overs in the area. The play area is amazing as is the wonderful energy of the scene. https://angelentertainment.club/home/custom?page=about_us
The kind of “CLUBS” we don’t recommend.
There are many swing clubs and parties whose owners and management hurt the safety of their guests. After realizing that we did not want to spend advertising to such clubs, we decided to instead warn our members of behaviors they should watch out for and avoid. A majority of the swinger clubs in the city activate within the legal rights of the law, however, there are a few that skirt the law and endanger your lives. Please take note if you see any of the following. Whereas we will not tell anyone where to and not play, we do caution that you watchout for yourselves and be careful of the establishments you venture.
Promises of Sex: No club owner can promise sex at their facility. Any promises of sex constitutes as prostitution. All a club facility can provide is a nice and sexy atmosphere to meet other couples and single females, invite real swinger and provide nice, clean, cozy play areas.
Too much money: Most on-premise swing clubs operate off a donation, and for the most part, that donation is kept honesty as all of it should go to either running the party or future upkeep. In the midwest, your average swingclub should run you between 40 to 80 dollars, at most $100. A house party should be majority free with the exception of large scale houses, which should require no more than a 20 to 40 dollar donation. Hotel parties are usually between the $20 and $30 range. Of course these are all couple prices, single female prices should be significantly less. When the cost of a club is extrodinarily high, somethings wrong. Either there’s a significant profit margin being made, or/and the club owner is sending messages that your donation promises something other than being at a place with others.
Serving Alcohol: Anytype of open liquor provided by a host of an onpremise party without a liquor license is illegal, and have led to a majority of the swing clubs we have seen being shut down. This puts them and you at a liability and takes away your ability to objectively consent .
Drugs: This should be a given. If you smell weed at a party leave for your own safety. This has been the number 2 reason why we have seen swingers and clubs in trouble. Drugs and swinging just don’t mix. They can lead to erratic behavior that harms you and people around you.
Anything that requires a license: Be weary of clubs that offer any type of entertainment that requires a license such as stripping, alcohol or large scale buffets. When resevering, ask if the club has a license These small things are the types of things that exposes the discreetness of a club to law enforcement. If the police will bust an art party for not having licenses they will definately bust an alleged swingers club.
Too many Single Men: There’s a thin line between inviting single men to a party and encouraging prostitution. In the eyes of law enforcement the line is thinner. Ask clubs if they have a single men policy and ask what is the price and ratio for single men. If the price is double of what you are paying be leary, if the ration seems high be even more leary.
Paying for a House Party: Anytime you are asked to pay any amount of money at a house party, be cautious. We have played in some wonderful homes and mansions, and the donation was more than justified. No one can put a pricetag on what you are wiling to pay for fun, but a house party that operates on a regular basis can raise flags with local law enforcement and neighbors.
Strippers: If someone is advertising strippers or dancers at a party, save yourself some legal trouble and do not attend. Swinging is consensual sex among adults. When you add strippers and “money” you are going into sex work, which is illegal and another way we’ve seen clubs get busted.